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How to Write an Obituary

Quickly and easily write the words that will give a memorable and loving tribute to one you have loved. 

Everything you need is right here!

Be super confident when you write an obituary for your loved one and know the right aspects to include in order to have a meaningful newspaper  or website tribute to your dearly departed in the obituary section.

Sunday, 8:48 a.m.

From the desk of Laurie Mueller

Dear Friend

I am so sorry for your loss.

I know how hard it is at this time for you to even think about accepting the fact that your loved one has passed on and yet, right now, you need to think about putting your thoughts into words, memories into a tribute and giving your loved one the kind of farewell that you know would make them proud and happy.

You want to share the wonderful parts of the life of your loved one with others and you need to find the instructions on how to put it all in order and make it come out in the way that meets up to your expectations and gives your loved one the best kind of farewell.

You want to know what to say, how much to say, what to leave out and you want to get the information correct and give a good tribute to the one that you love.  You want people to get the information that they need in order to come to the service or to send a message to the family.  You want people to be informed but you don't want thieves and crooks to be able to rob and loot any of your family or take on the deceased's identity.  You need clear directions on how you  can accomplish all of this.  You might not have done this ever before so you need step-by-step instructions that can lead you through getting this task done quickly and easily

No more sifting through a multitude of websites wondering if you have covered it all.  No more reading things that don't even pertain to what you are looking for and wasting your valuable time.

No more guessing what is needed or trying to decipher which obituaries in the paper are good examples for you to use.

Not only am I a writer and a presenter and a counselor. I am a person who has attended a great number of funerals mostly for family but also I have lost some good friends in accidents and to cancer.  I have clipped the obituaries and saved them.  Both my parents and my first husband died and I took an active role in creating a meaningful service in memory of them. I wrote their obituaries. I have helped friends and family members write obituaries for their loved ones.    I have taken their stories of what goes right and what can go wrong and made sure that you have all of this information simply and easily at your fingertips so that in your time of distress you can easily get the technical information that you need to honor your deceased love one in the manner that you aspire to.  

For over 30 years I have worked with funeral presenters. I have worked with people who are grieving,  I have helped people learn how to write. 

And now I can help you at this very minute wherever you are in the world.  Whatever faith you are, to understand that you can write a loving testimonial to your deceased family member or friend. 

 

I am not a writer so I didn't know what to say or how to say it.  Laurie helped me.  Thanks Laurie  - CB, Victoria, BC

I had questions about how to write some sensitive material.  Laurie told me what to do.  - TR - Prince George, BC

Kiddo! You did it for me!  Great Job!  Good luck on your website!  - Frank, Vancouver, BC

 

When my mother died and I knew it was my sole responsibility to give her a proper send off. As I was flying into town the day after her death, I started sketching out the obituary that would be needed to put into the newspaper later that day.  I arrived in my home town and immediately went to visit my mother's closest relative and friend - her cousin - who I respectfully call "Auntie Bea" .  She was upset. How could I have put such a curt notice in the paper?  Why did it not mention any service or the date or time of the service?  I was mystified.  As an only child, I knew there was no one else to put a notice in the paper.   I told Auntie Bea that I was currently writing the obituary, I told her that I would let her know the next day when and where the service would be and that I would put a new notice into the newspaper.   And I did. And she was relieved.   Crisis averted!   The ‘death notice' had been put into the paper on my mother's request to the funeral home when she had "pre-arranged" her funeral.  They were her words! 

I was determined that my mother's final hurrah would be a true tribute to the wonderfulness of the woman.  I wanted to make sure that the people learned about who my mother was and that the stories told and the facts mentioned were the ones that reminded everyone of the goodness of the woman.  In my mother's case, as in many folks lives, things were not always easy and sometimes the difficulties overtook the enjoyment of life.  But I did not want that to be the focus of the obituary.  I wanted her to go out in joy.  I did that! 

As the only child of an only child and now who had lost both parents, it was up to me to write the obituary to let friends and family know of her passing, to let acquaintances and previous associates to read about who she was and to determine if they could attend the service.  They also had to know where to send their memorial wishes and to whom to donate their farewell tribute.  The obituary in my opinion was the beginning of the time to celebrate my mother's life and to mourn her passing.

It helped me to do one last special thing for her and it was very good beginning to the healing process for me.  

 

My Mind Went Blank - What Do I Do Now?  

When I was confronted by my Auntie Bea, my mind went blank.  What was expected? What had other people done? What was the right way to write the obituary?   I lived many miles from the city that my mother was in.  I hadn't been in touch with her friends and other family members for some years.  And now my Aunt was telling me that something I hadn't even done was something I shouldn't have done!  

The silly thing was that I did know most of what to do.  I was just in shock and in grief and I needed someone to hold my hand and get me onto the right road again.   That's why I have put together all this information for you.  It is a tough time right now and you need someone to quietly help you do the things you need to do.   I want to do that for you.

 

 

"With a bit of help, absolutely anyone can write a great tribute to their loved ones....

You are going through a hard enough time right now and you don't need to add more stress to your grieving.  My guide "The Ultimate Guide on how to Write an Obituary" and its additional materials will help you get through this time in your life while honoring the one that you love in a meaningful and memorable way.  You need only to download this guide, read and put the suggestions into use, and that will place your best foot forward. 

In this guide you will find the following information:

How to Write an Obituary

Everything you need to know to write what can be called the funeral notice, death notice or obituary is in this guide and will help you pay proper tribute to your loved one.  In this guide it will help you by telling you:

  • Where to post an obituary
  • The components with examples of how to write each one
  • A framework to guide you through the process
  • Quotes you can use
  • Tips to do and common mistakes to avoid
  • How to credit an ex-spouse
  • How to prevent identity theft
  • Samples of several well written obituaries, one very poorly written obituary, and samples of some hard to write obituaries such as an infant and a suicide victim

In this guide you will find help with how much to say, what not to say, how to say it. You will learn exactly what you can do and how to do it.

Whether you are writing an obituary for:

  • Your Father
  • Your Mother
  • Your Grandmother
  • Your Grandfather
  • Your Spouse
  • Your dearly beloved child
  • Your Brother
  • Your Sister
  • Your Aunt 
  • Your Uncle
  • Your Co-worker
  • Your Boss

You will get help to create the obituary that all will be proud of.

 

 

The format of this guide will give you the confidence to create a caring, loving and memorable tribute to your loved one.  It:

  • is easy to read and implement
  • is straight forward to follow
  • will save you time and frustration
  • will make you look like a star
  • will give you confidence
  • will create an atmosphere of love in any relationship
  • will give you the right words to say
  • has great ideas that will make the obituary a keepsake for friends and family members.

All the resources that you need are right here!  Just push the 'Buy Now' button and all the information will immediately be delivered to you.  You only need to start writing your memories and thoughts down and placing them in the right spot.

 

To order your copy today, along with your  FREE bonus, please click the link below:

CLICK HERE TO ORDER YOUR COPY OF

FUNERAL SPEECHES: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE FOR HOW TO WRITE AN OBITUARY

 


In your time of need,  I can help you!

You may be worried about doing the wrong thing!

Relax.  I'm here to tell you that you make the rules.  I'll give you some guidelines that can help you decide how you will go about it.  Just relax and remember that your intention to honor the deceased is the most important rule to follow.

I've also added a bonus that you can use later.

 

Bonus:

How to write an Anniversary Memoriam

Many people want to express their love for the deceased on the anniversary of that person's death, but they don't quite know how to go about it.  In this quick and easy to follow guide, you will get the information  you need to put one together.  You will also read some samples to show you the different styles of "In Memoriam" that others have written.

 

 

 Using "The Ultimate Guide on How to Write an Obituary" you will be able to:

  • Imagine your sense of accomplishment and pride when friends and family come up to you and tell you they read your tribute in the newspapers' obituary column and tell you how meaningful it was to them.  Imagine your sense of pride when you see the heartfelt homage to the one you have loved and cared about so much written in the newspaper.
  • Imagine how good others will feel in their grief when they read the words you have written about your loved one.
  • Imagine how happy it would make your dearly departed friend or relative to know that you are taking good care of their final arrangements. 

You want to do a good job and you don't have a lot of time to prepare. 

By pushing the buy now button below you will be well on your way to making a good impact on all of those who are missing their friend and family member.

 

 

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If you aren't absolutely thrilled with our product, just contact me within 60 days and I'll refund 100% of the purchase price.

No questions asked!

 

To order your copy today, along with your FREE bonus, please click the link below:

CLICK HERE TO ORDER YOUR COPY OF
FUNERAL SPEECHES: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE FOR HOW TO WRITE AN OBITUARY


 


Sincerely,

Laurie Mueller, M.Ed

 

P.S. I want to be crystal clear about this... remember that this is not some cheesy thrown-together Word document cut-and-pasted from random websites who don't even know what they're talking about - "The Ultimate Guide on how to Write An Obituary"  is assembled by my professional experience and in consultation with a team of experts and every part of it has been tested and PROVEN to work!

 

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