Finally a proven, realistic and complete guide to what you need to do for your loved one now that they have passed on. 

Use this guide to take you through the steps that you need to do from the time you are notified of the death of your loved one until you have completed all the tasks you need to do to give your loved one a fitting send off. 

From the desk of Laurie Mueller, M.Ed

Tuesday, 6:55 p.m.

Dear Friend,

I am sorry for you loss.

Are you worried that you won't know the proper things to do or enough about what needs to be done to make sure that your loved one gets the best treatment?  Are you overwhelmed by the amount of things that you think you might have to do and yet you have no clear picture of what needs to be accomplished.  Are you concerned that perhaps you don't even know who to ask? 

This is the last thing that you will do for your loved one.  You want to make sure that the body is taken care of in a respectful and caring manner, that the tributes given are the best that they can be and that all the little items that need to be taken care of are taken care of. Who should you call?  Who can you trust?  How do you write an announcement?  How do you give a eulogy?  Should you have a memorial service or a funeral?  What is a Celebration of Life?  What do you need to know before you talk to the funeral director?  Should you include the grandchildren in the obituary?  Where can you find a reading for the service?  There are so many questions that you need answered. 

I have been there.  My mother died and I didn't know what to do.  I was better prepared when the father of my children died, but even then I wished that I had a checklist that could help me and them get the things done that needed to be dealt with without forgetting anything or wondering if they were being taken advantage of by people that knew more than them. 

My name is Laurie Mueller and I have been researching this topic by talking to funeral directors, ministers and other people whose loved ones have died.  I have read countless books on the topic and researched the internet and listened to podcasts and interviews relating to the topic. 

I am a person who has attended a great number of funerals mostly for family but also I have lost some good friends in accidents and to cancer.  Both my parents and my first husband died and I took an active role in creating a meaningful service in memory of them as well as taking care of the practical matters that needed doing.  I am a writer and a presenter and a counselor.    I have taken the stories of what goes right and what can go wrong and made sure that you have all of this information simply and easily at your fingertips so that in your time of distress you can easily get the technical information that you need to honor your deceased love one in the manner that you aspire to.  

For over 30 years I have worked with funeral presenters. I have worked with people who are grieving; I have helped people learn how to write and to speak in public. 

And now I can help you at this very minute wherever you are in the world. 

Laurie was on speed dial with us during the illness and death of our father.  She kept us grounded and gave advice when asked.  We got through it and we did it with Laurie's guidance.  I'm in my 30's and I hadn't gone through a death before.  I had no idea what to do.  CC - Tacoma, Washington

I've called upon Ms Mueller several times when I needed some help after my wife,Thelma, died.  Thelma was everything to me and there were little things I didn't know what to do.  Ms Mueller helped fill in the blanks for me.  - MG, Edmonton, Alberta

When my mom died I knew it was my responsibility to give her a proper send off.  I had been to funerals where the minister hadn't known the deceased and had pronounced their name wrong, I had been to funerals where the minister had told stories that may have been fitting for someone of the same era but not the woman being eulogized.  I had been at funerals where the grieving granddaughter had lost her last page of her speech and had sat down leaving us wondering and herself mortified. I had been at a funeral where the deceased woman had been a staunch church member all her life but her children weren't so she was memorialized in a downtown hall with no clergy present.

I was determined my mother's funeral would be a true tribute to the wonderfulness of the woman.  I wanted to make sure that the music and readings would be a reflection on her life and the stories reminded everyone of the goodness of the woman.  I wanted it to be an event in which she would have been proud to be a participant in.

I asked one of my colleagues to coordinate the service but I wanted to do all the speaking (I'm not shy!).  As an only child I was devastated.  It was up to me to do those things that she had not preplanned.  Even though she often said Don't give me a funeral, I was determined to give her a good send off.  I was determined to write a special obituary and to write and present a eulogy that told her story to those who gathered that day to celebrate her life and mourn her passing. I was also determined that her grandchildren partipated in a formal service to honor their grandmother and express their grief.

It helped us to do this last special thing for her and it was very good beginning to the healing process for us.  

My Mind Went Blank - What Do I Do Now?  

When my mother died, I spent a sleepless night thinking about her life and our relationship.  I wrote down stories that I thought would be good stories for her eulogy, I wrote a long letter to her telling her how much she had meant to me and apologizing for all the things I wish I hadn't said and did. 

I lived many miles from the city that my mother was in.  It would be a few days before I could get there.   Upon arrival, I went to the nursing home where she had been living.  My mind was blank.  I didn't know what to do.  I forgot that she had told me she had preplanned her funeral arrangements.  I couldn't think what to do.  I asked the head nurse, "What do I do now?"  

The silly thing was that I did know most of what to do.  I was just in shock and in grief and I needed someone to hold my hand and get me onto the right road again.   That's why I have put together all this information for you.  It is a tough time right now and you need someone to quietly help you do the things you need to do.   I want to do that for you.

"With a bit of help, absolutely anyone can be organized and do the tasks that are needed to be done in a loving and respectful manner which will allow the good memories of your loved one to live on.....

You are going through a hard enough time right now and you don't need to add more stress to your grieving.  The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies and its additional materials will help you get through this time in your life while honoring the one that you love in a meaningful and memorable way.  You need only to download this guide, read and put the suggestions into use, and that will place your best foot forward. 

In The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies you will find the following information to help you through these tough times:

• 45 items that need to be taken care of
• A simple way to organize yourself through this traumatic time

What You Need to Do Know and Do When Planning the Funeral or Memorial Service

1.      What kind of service to have

2.      How to Choose a funeral home or church

3.      Knowing the role of the officiant

4.      Understanding the components of the service and the details: for example how long should a service be? What should you do for a reception? Should you have an open mike? What should you use for readings? What music is appropriate?

6.      Realizing your choices when the deceased has said "There will be no funeral when I die!"

How to Write an Obituary

Everything you need to know to write what can be called the funeral notice, death notice or obituary is in this guide and will help you pay proper tribute to your loved one.  This guide will help you:

• Know where to post the obituary
• Understand the components with examples of how to write each one
• write an obituary using this easy framework
• with quotes you can use
• avoid common mistakes
• credit an ex-spouse
• prevent identity theft
• write the obituary of the one you love using samples of several well written obituaries, one very poorly written obituary, and samples of some hard to write obituaries such as an infant and a suicide victim

In The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies you will find help with how much to say, what not to say, how to say it. You will learn exactly what you can do and how to do it.

Whether you are writing an obituary for:

• Your Father, Mother, Grandmother, Grandfather, Spouse, Your dearly beloved child,  Brother, Sister, Aunt, Uncle, Best friend, Co-worker, Boss

You will get help to create the obituary that all will be proud of.

This section of The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies will give you the confidence to create a caring, loving and memorable tribute to your loved one because it:

• is easy to read and implement
• is straight forward to follow
• will save you time and frustration
• will give you confidence
• will create an atmosphere of love in any relationship
• will give you the right words to say
• has great ideas that will make the obituary a keepsake for friends and family members.

All the resources that you need are right here!  Just push the 'Buy Now' button and all the information will immediately be delivered to you.  You only need to start writing your memories and thoughts down and placing them in the right spot.

How to Write a Eulogy

You will receive everything you need to know in order to write the funeral speech for your loved one and so that you will pay proper tribute to the loved one that has died.  In this section of The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies you will learn 

• the length the eulogy should be
• the types of eulogies there are so you can choose which one you want to use
• the components that go into a poignant speech
• how you can gather the information you need
• how to get your ideas down on paper
• how to present the eulogy in a caring and competent manner.

You will receive

• questions to answer that will fill out the story of your loved one
• examples of stories and descriptions
• valuable do's and don'ts that you will want to make sure you follow
• tips about what clergy are thinking when they meet with you about the service
• samples of difficult eulogies to write

For those of you who don't consider yourself writers or have very limited time to prepare, I have included a "Fill In The Blanks" Eulogy that will give you an instant presentation.  Just add your own stories!

Not only have I experienced too many funerals and deaths of friends and relatives in my life, I have researched a lot of the work that has been placed on the internet and read a multitude of books about this subject, I have also personally interviewed ministers and funeral directors who have worked with grieving families and who have written hundreds of eulogies.  The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies contains their advice and wisdom.

When you purchase The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies you will find help with how much to say, what not to say, and how to say it. You will learn exactly what you can do and how to do it.

Whether you are writing a eulogy for:

• Your Father
• Your Mother
• Your Grandmother
• Your Grandfather
• Your Spouse
• Your dearly beloved child
• Your Brother
• Your Sister
• Your Aunt 
• Your Uncle
• Your Best Friend
• Your Co-worker
• Your Boss

you will get help to create the kind of eulogy that all will be proud of.

You can write as much as you want or you can fill in the blanks. This will make it easy to allow you to share any important memories with others while honoring the one you love.

The format of The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies will give you the confidence to create a caring, loving and memorable tribute to your loved one.  It:

• is easy to read and implement
• is straight forward to follow
• will save you time and frustration
• will make you look like a star
• will give you confidence
• will calm your nerves
• will create an atmosphere of love in any relationship
• will give you the right words to say
• has great ideas that will make any service memorable.

Also included in The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies are interviews about some of the dos and don'ts that people commonly worry about.

All the resources that you need are right here!  Just push the 'Buy Now' button and all the information will immediately be delivered to you.  You only need to start writing your memories and thoughts down and placing them in the right spot.

In your time of need,  I can help you!

You may be worried about doing the wrong thing!

Relax.  I'm here to tell you that you make the rules.  I'll give you some guidelines that can help you decide how you will go about it.  Just relax and remember that your intention to honor the deceased is the most important rule to follow.

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To help you during this stressful time I've also added some important and critical bonus material.

Bonus #1: Understanding Your Feelings of Grief and Loss

Your feelings are important and honoring how you feel and giving yourself the time and permission to take care of yourself is very very important.  In this bonus I explain to you what grief is and how you can heal yourself through the way that you mourn.

Some people worry about grieving and wonder if they should be over it by now.  I'll talk about that with you in this bonus.  Children grieve, and I have suggestions for you to help them through this process.

Bonus #2: Public Speaking Tips for the Eulogist

Do you worry about speaking in front of a group?  Do your knees go to mush and your stomach turn into a mass of butterflies just at the thought of getting up in front of a group of people?  I was like that once but now I look forward to speaking to a group whether there are 5 or 500.

Using the wisdom of my colleagues and my own personal experiences, you will have greater confidence going up to the front and giving the eulogy for the person you loved.

Included in this bonus are helpful public speaking tips used by the most terrified to turn them into public orators - at least for a few minutes during this one important day.  You don't have to think of everyone in the audience as bare naked (but it helps).  OK, like my son says "That's gross thinking about what they look like naked, Mom."  So I've added better help.  Along with my professional experience I've also called in the experts and included their comments.  

Bonus #3: Eulogies of the Rich and Famous

Sometimes reading material about famous people by famous people can inspire you in your writing.  In this bonus section I have included eulogies from the British royalty, British and American celebrities and the US Civil Rights movement. 

Bonus #4: Quotes and Readings

At your figure tips readings, poetry and quotes that you can use within your eulogy to give it the final polished feeling.  

• Readings from the Old and New Testament of the Bible
• Popular poems that have given mourners comfort for many years
• New poetry that has been written to reflect our current times
• From authors such as Shakespeare, Emily Carr and Kahlil Gibran
• One line quotes that make profound statements in only a few words
• And even a funny story!

Bonus #5: Funeral Etiquette

When you know how to act, you will feel more confident and more at ease.  These tips will help you be your best in this sad and traumatic time.

Bonus #6: Dealing with Difficult People at the Funeral

People aren't always as well behaved as we would like them to be.  This bonus will help you to put these people in perspective.  Tips and strategies to help you converse and interact with them and suggestions about situations that you can create so you don't have to interact at all with them!

Bonus #7: In Memoriam - One Year Later

On the anniversary of a death, some people like to pay their tributes.  This bonus will show you how.

Bonus #8: Planning for Your Own Funeral

Don't be afraid that if you plan for your own funeral, it will bring it sooner.  Wise people plan for the future and make arrangements in the way that they want.  This bonus will explain to you how you can do this. 

 Using The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies you will be able to:

• Imagine your sense of accomplishment and pride when you say the final words of your tribute or when you read your tribute in the newspapers' obituary column and see the heartfelt homage to the one that you have loved and cared about so much.
• Imagine how others will feel just a little bit better in their grief as they hear the words to which they can relate.
• Imagine how happy it would make your dearly departed friend or relative to know that you are taking good care of their final arrangements. 
• Imagine your sense of relief and pride when you look back on the process and ralize that you have done a really great job!

You want to do a good job and you don't have a lot of time to prepare. 

By pushing the buy now button below you will be well on your way to making a good impact on all of those who are missing their friend and family member.

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Sincerely,

Laurie Mueller, M.Ed

P.S. I want to be crystal clear about this... remember that this is not some cheesy thrown-together Word document cut-and-pasted from random websites who don't even know what they're talking about - The Ultimate Guide on What To Do When Someone You Love Dies  is assembled by my professional experience and in consultation with a team of experts and every part of it has been tested and PROVEN to work!

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